SOME TIPS TO DATING SMART

"Love Yourself  More Than Any Other"

You must not get so caught up in finding love and getting married, that you lose sight of your common sense and allow your heart to be your guide.  Until you fall madly in love with yourself, and start living a happy-go-lucky, dignified, prideful and self-respecting life, don’t even think about dating.  These tasks alone, will keep you protected from most all bad circumstances.  Because when we love ourselves, we take every precaution to protect ourselves from harm.

 

Secondly, only date men you are attracted to and who meet your criteria.  Take the time to get to know dates via telephone, to determine whether or not they meet your qualifications before you agree to an official first date, no matter how long it takes.   By the time you agree to a first date, you should be at ease with each other as a result of your many conversations, which will eliminate awkward first dates.  And, he will know exactly what type of woman he is dealing with, your standards, your values, and what he can and can’t expect on a date with you, because you will have shared this information via these great telephone conversations.   

This knowledge will eliminate men who are not interested in establishing a long-term relationship.  Thus, you first date and subsequent dates will only be about having fun together as dates should be.  So make dates interesting and fun, which means saying goodbye to all of those boring dinner and drink dates.

 

Finally, remember that no matter how smitten you may become, your dates remains your friend until the one you want to be with, asks you to enter into an exclusive and monogamous relationship.  Self-respecting women, don’t have sex with their friends.  The bottom line, don’t even think about having sex until the two of you have discussed entering into a monogamous relationship and, you know by his actions that he had developed genuine feelings and affection towards you, and you him.   

Incidentally, make sure that all of the men you date are fully aware that these are prerequisites for jumping your bones!  Again, this eliminates those guys who are not interested in establishing a long-term relationship, just sex.  However, you must be smart and learn to decipher between those smooth talking guys who have learned to seduce women with words, it is his actions that you are looking for and not half-hearted ones either.

 
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