DATING IS A NECESSARY EVIL!

DATING MUST BE FUN!

 

 

The bottom line, you must date if you want to meet Mr. Right and get married.  But here’s the deal - you can date smart with dignity, pride and self-respect, or you can date stupidly without standards or direction.

First, let’s define dating.  Dating is when two-people decide to spend time together engaged in public social activities, in order to assess the suitability of each other as a partner in an intimate and exclusive relationship, one that hopefully leads to marriage.  Contrary to popular belief, sexual relations should never be a part of the dating stage.

I believe that most women hate dating because it invariably ends in heartache, theirs; specifically because they are doing it all wrong.  They date men who bear no resemblance to the type of men they admire, respect, and look up too.  They have sex on the first date or without a commitment. They get serious too soon.  They assume every date is Mr. Right.  They try too hard to impress, rather than being impressed.  They treat each date like an interrogation, rather than concentrating on just having fun.  They ignore red flags and make excuses for being treated poorly.  They allow dates to disrespect them with snide little sexual innuendos.  They fail to be themselves. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

Dating can and should be fun, as every man you date affords an opportunity to know what you want and don’t want in a man.  Love yourself and attack any issues with dignity, pride and self-respect.  It is only when you eliminate these qualities that heartache is allowed to set in.

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