WHAT'S PREVENTING YOU FROM ASPIRING TO BE A BETTER YOU?

 It's perplexing how so many single women aspire to meet an awesome guy who has it going on, but don't aspire to these qualities for themselves. My question to those of you who fall into this category, "why would an awesome guy who has it going on, want to be with a mediocre woman who doesn't have it going on?"  These type of men don't have to settle for second best, and trust me, they are not going to.

However, just for the moment, let's take men out of the equation and ask yourself, "why am I settling for being mediocre and not aspiring to be the best I can be?"   Is it laziness, a poor self-image, a lack of self-love or what?  For me, it was a lack of self-love.

What are you telling yourself that you have become  complacent about your personal appearance and grooming? Even though taking great pride in our personal appearance to the degree of turning heads and standing out in a crowd is not an aspiration of most women today, please don't let it stop you.  

Being ordinary is easy and takes little or no effort whatsoever. Not only that, you will have plenty of company.  Becoming extraordinary definitely takes more work.  However, it is well worth the extra effort, and will boast your self-esteem by leaps and bounds. You will transform from the woman who envies women that have it going on, to becoming one of them.  Even the thought feels good - doesn't it? 

There is no dignity, pride or self-respect in being overweight, not taking care of yourself, or leaving home not looking your absolute best, etc.  This degree of excellence is what all women should strive for. Therefore, identify your specific problem area and correct it ASAP.  Dignity, pride, and self-respect are the characteristics that motivate all of us  to be the best we can be.

These attributes come from personal development, and personal development will only happen when you make a firm decision to be the best YOU that you can possibly be.  Always remember, it's never too late to learn new behaviors and develop yourself.  

Exploring personal development will be instrumental in helping you to set goals and reach your full potential. Therefore ladies, stop short-changing yourself. I love you all, flaws and all, but for now it's time to get busy loving yourself and in turn become a better YOU!


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