HOW TO AROUSE HIS INTEREST IN YOU!

 "Engage Him In Conversation"

The easiest way to arouse a man’s interest in you is to engage him in many hours of conversation - on the telephone and on dates.  By engaging him in conversation (not Q&A sessions), you will begin to find out things about him that no one else knows; his dreams, goals, difficulties, favorite holidays, childhood memories, favorite food, favorite drink and pet peeves, etc.  He must also know these things about you.

The more of yourself that you share with him, the more of himself he will share with you.  That is, if he feels that he can trust you.  You gain his trust by not criticizing or showing indifference to things that he tells you.  You will never gain his full trust if you discuss with him the personal business of friends and relatives.  If you can’t be trusted with their secrets, he knows for sure you can’t be trusted with his.

As time goes on, you will begin to appreciate and understand each other in ways that others don’t.  Once the two of you start to share secrets, your relationship will intensify.  What you are doing here is creating intimacy and a special bond that is shared only between the two of you. You will be creating a foundation on which to build love for one another and the desire to be together long-term.  As you can see falling in love is not about game playing and strategies, it’s about opening up to each other by sharing and caring; thereby creating intimacy as you allow each other to see who you really are. 

Learn to really listen when having conversations with everyone until it becomes a habit.  All of us love having ones undivided attention when we are sharing our life experiences, a man is no different.  Learn to really listen to people and when they expose a character trait or situation that you find admirable, never fail to acknowledge it and express your admiration.  None of us can ever receive too many strokes including men.

In order to build a good relationship with a man or anyone else, learn to be yourself, love yourself as is, and allow others to do and be the same.   Don’t take anything for granted – be appreciative and verbally grateful for every single gesture that people extend to you no matter how small or trivial it maybe.  Nothing makes a person’s day more so than being verbally appreciated for the things they do for you.  It doesn’t matter whether you are male, female or child.   

Therefore, start dishing out compliments and thank you’s abundantly and stop assuming that men can’t handle these things without becoming big headed, because they flourish and revel in both.  The only criteria is to be sincere and genuine as you lavish men with compliments.



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