WE MUST STOP BLAMING MEN FOR OUR OWN SHORTCOMINGS!

"We Have All Heard The Term, "It's Not Him It's You"

I don't totally agree with this statement, as I feel it let's unscrupulous men totally off of the hook.  However, it does bring awareness to women to stop blaming men for every bad thing that happens to them in their associations with men, and to take a good look at their own behavior that allowed or contributed to his behavior.

I learned a long time ago that problems are never solved until we are totally honest with ourselves while looking within.  Blaming others keeps us from making changes about ourselves that desperately need changing.  Rarely are we innocent bystanders in these male/female adversities.

We will never grow as long as we continue to present ourselves as helpless little victims.  So put your big girl panties on and recognize your contributions in all adverse situations. In most cases, like me, you will come out concurring, "Damn, I was a stupid bitch."   Thus, when we know better, we do better!



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