"Some Should Actually Be Pitied"
Have you noticed as I have, that every time a single woman announces that she is engaged, most everyone, including her closest single girlfriends are ecstatic and some a tad bit envious, even if they know her husband to be is definitely not a great catch (a cheater, opportunist, thug, loser or abuser, etc.). Why is this? Rarely do they show or voice their disapproval (like the young lady in the picture), or share with her their fears that she maybe making a terrible mistake.
I believe this is due to our natural tendency to coddle each other by telling each other what we want to hear rather than what we need to hear. Instead of viewing this behavior as deceitful, most women view coddling as protecting. When in reality, deceit is never a loving and/or protective position to take.
I can remember as a young girl growing up, hearing some older women declare, "a piece of a man is better than not having a man at all." WOW! I viewed that statement as totally stupid back then, and I most certainly do now. As one can clearly see, women have a long history of idiotic thinking and behavior when it comes to men.
Ironically, this appears to be the same mode of thinking of women today, evidenced by their congratulating and and envying a woman that is marrying a "piece of a man", when they really should be pitying her.
This is yet another stupid behavior that we, as women must shed. Make a pact with your girlfriends that you will not coddle each other, but tell each other what you need to hear rather than what you want to hear when it comes to the behavior of the men we foolishly allow into our lives,as well as each others own stupid behavior with men.
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