"LADIES, WE ARE NOT VENDING MACHINES!

"Men Treat Women Like Vending Machines That They Feed With Kindness Until Sex Falls Out" 

 

I saw this quote on the Internet, isn't it awful ladies?  Unfortunately, many guys feel this way, so we must be on guard to this irrational thinking and not fall prey to it.  I had a client to tell me that she heard a guy tell other guys "y'all were right, she finally gave up the cookie after I took her shopping like you all suggested."

As all of you are fully aware, we can't control men and/or their thinking. However, we are in full control of our own behavior and thinking.  Therefore, we must lose the perception that we are obligated to exchange sex for kind gestures by a man, i.e., buying you a drink, dinner, and taking you on vacation, or shopping, etc.

You must adopt the attitude, that you don't owe men anything no matter how good they are to you, especially your body. Your body  should never be for sale under any circumstances. 

I have heard of women feeling obligated to be nice to a man for sending them over a drink.  Ladies, this is preposterous thinking, a $5.00 drink, really?  A simple thank you out of common courtesy, being how you are a 'classy' lady, is all that is warranted - nothing more and nothing less.  You don't owe him attention or anything else.

I believe, once again, that this insane thinking by women, that they are obligated to repay men in some fashion, depending upon their moral standards, for being nice to them, screams LOW SELF-ESTEEM!

Develop your self-esteem and expect to be treated with kindness and consideration because you deserve it.  Once that self-esteem is flying high, you won't feel you owe  a man or anyone for that matter, anything just because they are nice to you - except everyday common courtesy.

When you start to think highly of yourself, you won't view simple acts of kindness as extraordinary - just kind gestures because you are you and deserving of being treated special.



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