The Downside of Becoming The Best YOU Ever!

 “It Draws Out the Mean Girl In Some Women”

The bottom line, these women are hating on you because of their own insecurities and lack of self-confidence.  They feel like you are prettier, dress better, richer, smarter or whatever than them,  and it pisses them off, so they lash out at you.  

Please don’t play into their drama, it’s meant solely to make you feel as bad about yourself as they do about themselves. Therefore, pity the fool and totally overlook their jealous outbursts and/or rude comments.   Don’t ever allow another person's animosity to change your disposition or who you are.

Although I have been aware of this awful jealous behavior from women when they encounter a woman who looks and dresses better than them, etc.  I have been totally taken aback by the number of women who are so afraid of evoking this rage from other women, they play down their own looks, or dummy themselves down in other ways, so as not to be threatening.   

Now, this  is truly sad, when one chooses being mediocre over standing out, just to fit in, and not be criticized for being fabulous or for enjoying a fabulous life.

Happy, secure, self-loving and self-confident women don't hate, they appreciate and are motivated by women who have it going on.  They also wouldn't dream of dumbing themselves down in any way in an attempt to make another feel better about themselves.  They realize that no one can make us feel better about ourselves but the man in the mirror.  It's a personal problem that only the man in the mirror can resolve. 




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